Marriage Adjustments/Sexuality

So sorry about not posting for a couple of weeks, I've had a lot on my mind lately and have been distracted because of it.

My last post was on Physical attraction and falling in love and that jazz. Well, of course the next step is marriage, (if you're actually in love with they guy/girl) and getting used to the fact that you're "stuck" with that mate so you might as well know how to handle it well so that you don't drive each other crazy. The adjustments of marriage are for all newly weds and everyone experiences 'em. A few things they have to get used to are here:

• Money decisions together
• Differences
• New Experiences
• Roles
• Boundaries
• Social/friendship
• Stress of Children
• Etc

Basically, the best way to cope with all of these new exciting events and things that you've never experienced before is to talk it out calmly and understandingly. TALK IT OUT. The one thing you do not want to do is hide your feelings from each other because that just creates a border around you two and that's not healthy to have. He's/she's your best friend. Let them know how you feel.

Now the next subject. Sexuality. Yup. When you get married you have sex, it's natural and is supposed to happen. Now I'm not going to get into the awkward depth of it because that's just awkward. But what I do love about what we learned about it is that it's a great way to express your feelings to your spouse. It shows you how to be gentle and affectionate and personal. It's very personal in fact it's sacred. So, you must do it in a divine way not a natural way. Everything you do you want it to be divine because that is what we are all trying to be, so it has to be included in every aspect of our lives.
 And that's that for now.